Key qualities to a blissful relationship.....



It's from a newspaper article...These are the qualities..
  • You talk freely.If you’re gonna spend a lifetime with this person, you’d better be sure you’re comfortable having both deep and dorky discussions. Too much of one kind or the other and your banter becomes boring. You should just talk with each other, not just to each other, sharing ideas as well as trivial information about your day. Your rapport is a sign that you’re on the right romance track.
  • You’re both grown-ups.Maturity. What a word..You are recommended to not marry until both of you have taken time to figure out who you are and what you want from life. You’ll never have all the answers, but making the effort means you’re well within the adulthood. Only then you can focus on the goals of your marriage without waffling all over the place like a little kid.
  • You really are best friends.I love this one besides the ability to talk freely with your partner. It does help..BiG time!-i think . Long-haul lovers treat each other with serious respect even when they are disagree. When you’re arguing your point of view, it should never leave your mind that this person is your best friend. That way, you still treat him right, even if you think he’s wrong. The best thing is a relationship that knows how to have fun and laughs even when mistakes are made. Being best buds doesn’t mean it’ll all be smooth sailing, but by respecting and understands each other, you won’t capsize when the wedded waters get rough.
  • You touch all the timeHehe..Not advisable before marriage.One good tip to know before marriage is- how he/she treats their mum. Observation is good.Ahaks..The truly blissful ones have an emotional bond beyond the sheets that’s revealed in the way they physically interact in a day-to-day way. No matter how many years you’ve been married, people who have good relationships like to touch each other in intimately yet nonsexual ways. It could add years to ur love life.


    A verse from a poem entitled The Invitation :
    " It doesn't interest me where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up, after a night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children. I want to know if you will stand in the centre of the fire with me and not shrink back. It doesn't interest me who you know of how you came to be here. I want to know what sustains you from the inside, when all else falls away."

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