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Self awareness

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Self awareness is simply being conscious of your strengths while acknowledging what you still have yet to learn. Includes admitting when you don't have the answers and owning up to mistakes, which can sometimes be painful. But we also cannot deny the fact that whether we acknowledge our weaknesses or not, everyone still sees them. Self awareness is extremely challenging as it is difficult to see in you what others see so easily. To gain more insights into this, there are four type of self. Open self: What others know about you and which you know too; Blind self: What others see about you which you can't see; Hidden self: What others don't know about you, but you do aka ur secrets. Unknown self : What others don't know about you and neither do you. We all have blind spots and if we can learn what they are, we become better leaders. Therefore knowing more of your Open self and shrinking our Blind self and Unknown self - enabling us to be in control of yourself. ...

Smile

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The pressure that I have to take for the past two weeks has made me feel so exhausted. You'll be wondering whether you can keep up or not. The load is too much and you feel like there's no enough time. (My supervisor is out of town and I have to kinda cover for him)-Fuh...plus all the mistakes that I have made, makes me wondering what will happen next..Makes me realize what's going on here?..What went wrong?..Can I keep up with the fast-paced environment where mistakes are not tolerable?..I need a plan..One considerate colleague tell me :- Don't be sad, if you sad you won't be smiling and it's a pity.I just smile back to him.. I'm not a person who likes to fake a smile. That's why when I see a fake smile, I wonder why do they even bother to smile when we can see it is fake... We meet a lot of people but the worst kind of people is the one who never understands you. Somebody who simply just make their own assumptions about us without trying to consider o...

Financial literacy

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Someone who says money is not important to him is an ignorant fool or just a one big fat liar. I will ask what do you use to buy your food? Stones?.. If you ask me, most of the hardships in life comes from our deficiency in money. Just look around and ask yourself. Actually one of the reason why the Chinese are rich because most of them usually have savings or fortune for their next generation to come. Accumulated wealth really helps in the case of any unexpected event. They always help each other in money matters. And there's another thing - most of them too are financial prudent. Having a good knowledge in dealing with money is not something that we learn in school. It is something that we have to learn ourselves. It's important because money decides whether we live in a misery or fulfilling life.Being a financial prudent will help us to avoid having too much debt or making profit through investment. In short, we will not be deceived easily by any cunning motives. If we thin...

Playground

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Every evening, the sounds of children playing can be distinctively heard from a playground next to my rental apartment. One day while I was watching them playing, I tried to figure out what sort of games are they playing. It seemed interesting to see a group of (around) 12 kids playing together. I soon realized that kids can play with just anything and they are easier and having more tendency to play. They have less excuse to just play...I remember I used to search for anything useful to just play with my friends at the park. Now, I just miss the games and the group of friends I used to play with. I want to play and just be a kid again..playing with a group of friends, having fun--one of my wishful thinking.... huhu Today, we spent our evening near the Queensbay Mall where many kite fliers like to go. The sight of kites soaring up in the air has becoming a normal scenario here because the strong wind always gives the right prerequisition to fly a kite. We are always amaze ...

Susan Boyle

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This woman is amazing..I didn't watch her audition, but I just watched it in Youtube. The audience and the judges never expected that brilliant singing of hers. Her voice is very inspiring and incredibly powerful. Simply wow! and she's 48 this year. No doubt that her debut album is a best selling world wide. I love her singing for her first audition song in the Britain's Got Talent Show 09. The song called I Dreamed A Dream. Wild Horses is good too.Her story is another story of a woman who sticks to her dream no matter what other people will say. Thanks for the amazing songs and you really got talent, Susan!

Sit back and relax......

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Wah....It has been two weeks or so for the year 2010 =) Hepi New Year It has also been quite some time that i haven't write here.And i was so delighted to have a friend of mine (first ever) to say smthg in the shoutout box..huhu. One person can make a difference. 2 months plus working in Dell makes my encounter with Malay boys becoming much more difficult.Haha...Masakan tidak, all my colleagues in my department are Chinese.ahaks..Fuh! Although end-of-the-year holiday just two weeks ago, I always look forward for any holidays in the upcoming months.Heh. well i guess we will never get enough of holidays..huhu. Speaking of holidays, let's take a peek at some of the pictures I've taken : This is a full rainbow that i got the chance to see from my aparment balcony after i got back from work. The rainbow was just right in front of my face.Full huge semi circle. Brings joy to ur face.huhu This picture I took it while we're on the highway in Ipoh..The unique t...

Meeting with a friend..

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Yesterday after work, I decided to take a walk to my fren's place..It's been almost a year, (probably more than that) since the last time i saw her. I love walking so much since i used to it during my previous years in the university. My wish to join either Penang Bridge Marathon or the Penang Starwalk this year was not fulfilled due to my ignorance and late action..Haha..Actually i realized too late about these marathon and thus was not able to register before the deadlines..Hmm... Anyway, i met up with my former uni mate and it's nice meeting her face to face..We used to talk about everything and i love talking with her..So, meeting her was sort of reminiscing our life. We've talked about the people that we met in our life and how they changed us..I realized it more than ever and if we noticed hard enough some of the people that have perceptible presence in our life are there to teach us things..The lessons are not attain directly from them but much from our thought...